I always think that I can manage, that I will be OK. The easiest way to move on from something is to admit that there is nothing you can do about it!! I mean somethings just is what it is. And you have to put on your big girl panties and deal with it, and move through it, and come out the other side … with what seems like perfect make up and wonderful tips on how you do it!
I think our brains is so good to our hearts somedays..it takes all the crap and files it in file 13 (which is the dustbin) so that we can make it trhough the hard times without our hearts breaking! And we can be there with feeling! We need our hearts intact, this way we can feel, love, emphatize and care.
But this is also how we are able to let go. Those times when our hearts keep clinging to pain and hate, our brains knows to let it go
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